In a recent newsletter we mentioned the dilemma of a New York lady trying to recontact the love of her life from ten years earlier through the intermediary of the White Hat website. Bellow is some of the collected wisdom of our subscribers on the matter.
"she sounds a bit overbearing.... but who can go past free accomodation in NYC?
Owen"
"I say go for it!
Going by the goings-on on Sex and the City if he decided to fly to NYC to meet up with this long lost love and it doesn't work I'm sure he'll be able to find another desperate New Yorker - or is that another show I'm thinking of.
PLUS Aussie men are all the range in the states at the moment.
Christine"
"Yes! Yes! Yes, Yes, Yes!
Sucker for a romantic happy ending.
Kerrie"
"Being a Libra this is quite a dilemma…. YES - why not after all these years he must have had some major affect that she's still searching……. But then again NO - 10 years... what a cling on. ya think she would have got over it by now, maybe she wants to rub his face in it - you know how successful she now is etc or maybe she is a major stalker….
But then again if she's going to pay for the return ticket why not…….but then again 10 years people change a lot in 10 years…..
Hhhmmm like I said what a dilemma….ok, you decide!! Regards Karen"
"Gee, it's been 10 years - if she can't find someone else within that time she's a bit of a worry. I guess if Jason just wants a bit of fun maybe he could meet up with her fro a brief fling at a neutral place (PNG perhaps) and disappear again without letting her know his whereabouts.
Hope this helps. By the way I always enjoy your newsletter - don't always get the chance to read it but when I do I'm informed and entertained - what more can you ask for.
Bye for now,
Mandy."
"NO: but she should be prepared to offer tours to any white hatters (or viewers) visiting NY
Janine "
"NO I'm very nervous about inter country romances. What happens if there are children and the relationship goes bung as 45% of them do nowadays? I've told my daughter that she is not ALLOWED to get involved with anybody who lives in another country. She looks at me as if I am mad but one day if I become a grandmother, I'd like to have the little blighters at least in the same country as me.
Cheers Sylvia"
"Hmmm, The age old dilemma... should one revisit the nest one hast vigorously nestled in previously???
Firstly one must know more of the nesting habits...
Did the Nestee enjoy the nestling experiences? Did the Nester enjoy said moments of bodily fluid exchanges? If YES to both... then why the separation and the bloody great distance between them? Has the Nester had any body enhancement procedures? (If not ... WHY not? Then you can't be a real NYer!!!!) Would the Nestee be happy with said enhancements? If so... WHY so? And last but maybe not least..... Does the Nestee bat for the other team?
Now once the above essential criteria has been dutifully explored... and explained... then maybe the answers go like this...
YES!!!! 'KIN OATH!!!! TOO MUCH PASSION!!! YES!!!! 'KIN OATH!!!! CAN'T HAVE TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING!!!! NO!!!!
Given all this then simply... GO FOR IT!!!!... But be savy about the situation..... get the Nester out here first!!! If she's already here the upside is her visitors visa will eventually expire (we all know how quick the authorities respond to this scenario...) so you have an element of safety on your side... she'll be gone in time to let you do with the rest of your life as you wish!!!! Should the Nestling be up to scratch keep going for it, then decide on the NY relocation after you've had your fill of passionate Nestling all over again!!!
Should this not give the answers... then do you have a squeeze at present... if so squeeze tight and don't return/migrate to the forbidden Nestling of yesteryear... Oh yeah... and don't respond to Nigels calls he may Nestle in on your current Nester!!!!!!!!
See it's as clear as mud!!!! Quite simple really???
Tony "
"NO
Just because I'm a realist before the full facts are presented. I say you try and get Jason to post his side of the story.
Havagoodun, Cheng"
